How can I develop the skill of walking the middle path? Can I control my feelings?
When I stop and observe, I recognize that everything is undergo a change…
So, how can I follow the change? How can I really affect the change? What are the things that I can ask myself and be aware of while dealing with the change?
First, I’ll start by slowing down my life, because then I can see the cause and effect of what I do. Then, I can start to work with the effect of the change.
Can I meet the change, be grateful for it and work with it?
My condition was to fight with the change, understand it and make some meaning out of it, like how it relates to my life.
How can I connect to the change without being so much affected by it? without feeling helpless, that I lack the energy to deal with and feel lost and confused by it.
let’s look at the condition. unpleasant sensation – what do we tell ourselves? why do I feel what I feel? is something wrong with me? how can I feel better? what do I have to do in order to appreciate and experience something different than I feel right now?
Ask yourselves these questions that will allow you to stop and reflect.
to look within.
What do you want right now?
If everything is undergo a change, you cannot control it.
What you can do is to appreciate the change as it is.
Can you see that?
How is your life?
How do you relate to your daily life?
Do you have doubts? Do you have difficulties?
What is the practical question and action to take regarding your life?
How will you know unless you look within yourself and observe?
If I did not have the idea that I should or shouldn’t be something…
Who planted this idea within us, to become something different than we are? Can we live without an idea, a concept of how we should live? Of what is the right or wrong thing for us to do?
Without the idea of having peace, harmony, without believing any concept to be true… Is there peace there?
How do we live our life, practically? In a way that can truly support us to be ourselves, connect, and share love?